And to increase the degree of difficulty, you can’t just sequester yourself in your war room solving problems; employees need you to be more visible and accessible than ever.
That’s why you need to make communication a priority. Even when you’re feeling tired, stressed and overwhelmed, it’s important for you to square your shoulders and fulfill your critical role of providing direction and encouragement to your team members.
Here’s one key factor in successful communication: the words you choose.
George Lakoff, emeritus professor of cognitive science and linguistics at University of California, Berkeley, explains why. He writes that every word or phrase fits what he calls “a frame”—a connection to the beliefs or values that the audience holds dear.
Frames are part of what psychologists and scientists call “‘the cognitive unconscious’—structures in our brains that we cannot consciously access but know by their consequences: the way we reason and what counts as common sense.”
Put simply, words or phrases that support a person’s beliefs are more compelling than other words. So especially during a crisis, the words you choose will be more successful if you focus on the frames that address what employees care most about:
- Purpose: What the organization seeks to accomplish
- Empathy: That you’re listening and understand employee challenges
- Community: The sense of connection among employees
- Motivation: Support and encouragement
- Action: Direction on what to do
- Recognition: Acknowledgement of employee contributions
Here are 47 words that support the most important frames:
Purpose: “Why we’re here. What we seek to accomplish.”
Use these words:
1. Ambition
2. Aspiration
3. Direction
4. Focus
5. Intent
6. Plan
7. Purpose
8. Reason
9. Mission
10. Vision
Empathy: “I know what you’re going through.”
Use these words:
11. Aware
12. Believe
13. Get
14. Hear
15. Listen
16. Realize
17. See
18. Understand
Community: “We’re in this together. And, together, we can make it through.”
Use these words:
19. Accept
20. Agree
21. Belong
22. Connected
23. Include
24. Join
25. Part (as in “be a part of)
26. Rally
27. Rapport
28. Together
Motivation: “You’ve got what it takes to help us succeed. I’m counting on you.”
Use these words:
29. Achieve
30. Commit
31. Dare
32. Opportunity
33. Overcome
34. Persist
35. Succeed
Action: “Here’s what you need to work on. Let’s do this!”
Use these words:
36. Accomplish
37. Act
38. Build
39. Create
40. Do
41. Now
42.Today
Recognition: “Thank you for everything.”
Use these words:
43. Achievement
44. Appreciate
45. Acknowledge
46. Recognize
47. Thanks
Once you understand which words to select, create a key message document, which articulates the story you want to tell and includes:
- An elevator speech—a short summary (2-3 sentences) that quickly and simply articulates what you want to say.
- Talking points—conversational statements used to explain in greater detail
- FAQs—questions employees are likely to ask with answers you’ll provide
These key messages become the foundation for communicating in every format: emails, presentations, internal social media posts and small-group conversations.
Here’s an example of one leader’s core message:
During these challenging times, I’d like to remind you that our purpose hasn’t changed: to provide our customers with quality products in a timely and helpful way. I understand that we’re all facing big obstacles, which makes it more important that we join together to overcome those obstacles. Just keep doing your best work and I’m confident that we’ll make it through. Thanks for your commitment and support.
Ready to be a more compelling communicator? A great place to start is by choosing the right words.
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